Life: To me, to live means to put effort on what you want to get or achieve. What does it mean to you, Love?
Love: I do also agree with you, Life. But in my case, sometimes effort isn't really necessary. The importance is that we trust that there's God who may always put you on the best direction, though it is crappy and so, so amazingly unbelievable. That you think why it happens to you. Or why this "joke" is just getting too much.
It is effortless...
So yes, you simply need to SURRENDER. To God, to the universe.